**** Seeking Northern VA Resident: Loudoun & Fairfax Counties ****
Look, I’m going to try to be as compassionate as possible here but still be true to my strong and sassy self.
I’ll start by quoting Miss Jackson. “No, my first name ain’t Baby.” (It’s also not babe, hottie, milf, or sexy lady. Please just stop the f*ckery lol.)
Wow, y’all...no lie...the majority of people online are barely out of a marriage or have just broken-up with someone. I’m talking, their stuff is still at their ex’s place or they haven’t even been legally separated for a full 24 hours. Slow that roll, Skippy. Try being by yourself for a while. Get your head and heart straight. If what you really want right now is just sex, then state that (and exit this profile). If you are just looking to feel wanted and important again, then I don’t volunteer as tribute for that hunger game. Immediately trying to date again is the worst thing that you can do after the end of a relationship. If you can’t learn to be happy and healthy alone, then you will never be happy and healthy in a relationship. This site is inundated with people who just don’t understand that.
Let me be blunt. It’s not my responsibility to validate you, save you, support you, sponsor you, or f*ck you. Even at age 47, I’m treated like my purpose is to entertain and stroke the egos of the male species. Humanity needs help, my friends lol. Big time. Many of you have children. Thinking about that just blows my freakin’ mind lol. Especially when you are the Dad posing shirtless in a mirror and making a stupid duck face. No man should do that — ever lol. Picture some tool like that messaging your own daughter. How does that make you feel? I hope sick. Because that’s how it makes me feel every time I see one on here.
If you haven’t guessed it by now, I’m not desperate to have a man’s attention or affection. I enjoy the time I spend alone, in my own company. This doesn’t mean that I don’t love being in a relationship. I’m actually my best self in a relationship. I’m extremely loyal, affectionate, passionate, and thoughtful... BUT ...I am not going to settle for just anyone with functioning organs and muscles. Who I give my attention to is very important to me. I’m not looking for a perfect man at all. The man I desire is a genuine and self-aware human being with some intelligence, who wants to treat a woman well. He has self-respect, self-control, and a conscience. Those last three things can’t be found in many people these days — especially online. I want the opposite of the middle-aged man with an active profile on multiple dating apps, who writes “hey hot stuff” to anything with a vagina, thinking that THAT is going to make me want to date him lol. One can’t expect a big payoff from *anything* in life without putting much effort into it. Ya know?
My ideal match is on this site for the sole purpose to find *one* good woman and then delete his profile. He has a healthy lifestyle (this includes not smoking or drinking often to get drunk), hasn’t been married more than once, and would never waste his time or mine. If that sounds like you and you’d like to get to know me more, send me a *coherent* message and we can start chatting.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Hmm. Well, are you wanting to date or just “hang out”? There is a big difference between the two.